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What dads can learn from this tough mother

Jasmin Paris is an amazing athlete and the first woman to finish the infamous Barkley Marathons. Here's what I learned from the supporting role played by her husband and father of her kids, Konrad Rawlik.
September 21, 2026

OK... this may be a platform for dads, but as a (now retired) endurance runner myself, I can't help but be inspired by this tough mother.

Jasmin Paris is an amazing athlete and the first woman to finish the infamous Barkley Marathons. I'll let you watch the movie here, but below I will share what I learned from the supporting role played by Jasmin's husband Konrad Rawlik.

Konrad plays a crucial, though often understated, role in her Barkley Marathons story and her overall success. His contribution highlights the importance of partnership and support in achieving ambitious goals, which is a vital lesson for dads and families. Here's a breakdown of his role:  

Unwavering Support:

  • Konrad's consistent presence and encouragement are essential to Jasmin's efforts. He's there at the Barkley, providing practical support, emotional encouragement, and belief in her abilities, even when things get incredibly tough.  
  • This demonstrates the power of a supportive partner in enabling someone to pursue their passions.

Logistical and Practical Assistance:

  • He provides vital logistical support during the Barkley, which is a complex and demanding race. He helps with navigation, timing, and ensuring Jasmin has the necessary supplies.
  • This shows the importance of practical help in supporting someone in achieving a difficult goal.

Understanding and Flexibility:

  • Konrad understands the demands of Jasmin's training and racing, and he's willing to adapt and be flexible to accommodate her needs. This highlights the importance of mutual understanding and compromise in a partnership.
  • This is a large part of what makes it possible for Jasmin to do what she does.

Shared Parenting and Family Support:

  • As a father himself, Konrad shares the responsibilities of parenting, allowing Jasmin to dedicate time to her training and racing. This demonstrates the importance of shared parenting in modern families.
  • This is a great example of how a family can work together to enable each family member to follow their passions.

Emotional Anchor:

  • In the face of extreme challenges and setbacks, Konrad provides emotional support and stability. His calm and reassuring presence helps Jasmin stay focused and motivated.
  • This emotional support is invaluable.

Respect for Individual Pursuits:

  • He clearly respects and values Jasmin's passion for running, even though it's exceptionally demanding. His support isn't about control, but rather about enabling her to be her best self.
  • This is a great example of allowing your partner to achieve their full potential.

So there you have it. Konrad embodies the role of a supportive partner who enables his spouse to pursue her dreams.

His contribution highlights the importance of teamwork, understanding, and shared responsibility in achieving ambitious goals, both in ultra-endurance running and in family life.

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